Whether or not your wife is beautiful, is not determined by the way she talks and looks.
It is determined by how you feel when you are next to her.
Does she bring you to that beautiful silence, or do you get further agitated in her company?
Does her very presence calm you down?
If her presence calms you down, then she is beautiful.
I keep calling Jesus, ‘handsome’.
It is not because he was young, tall, fair, and muscular.
I keep calling him ‘handsome’ for what he is.
Kabir is beautiful, Meera is beautiful.
Meera is beautiful for her devotion.
Meera is beautiful because when you are with Meera, then some of her devotion simply rubs-off on you.
Sitting next to Meera, you get a taste of Krishna. That is why Meera is beautiful.
So, what is Ugly?
Whatever takes you away from the beauty in your Heart is Ugly.
What is Beautiful?
Whatever takes you towards your beautiful Heart is Beautiful.