Your parents, they deserve real treatment, not false treatment.
If you love your parents then bring the Truth closer to them. Have the guts. And remember if you have love, then love gives you the courage. Love itself gives you so much courage.
If you really love your parents then you must have the ability, the burning desire, to tell them that father all these false treatments that you are trying will not help you. This game of expectations will not help you. You real need is something else. And please allow me to bring that something else to you. That would be the real energetic action of love.
But that would require you a real clean heart, and an intense desire to help the parents. If you don’t have that cleanliness of heart and the desire that comes out of loves, then you won’t do this.
Then you will say, “All right, he is asking for a fake medicine, why take so much trouble? He is asking for fake medicine, given him fake medicine.” That’s what most sons and daughters do.
Parents ask for fake medicines and sons and daughters keep giving fake medicines because there is no real love. Real love does not say that “You know, I’ll only say nice things to my Papa. I’ll not say anything to my mother which she does not want to hear”. Real love says, “No, the Truth must be brought forward. Even if it doesn’t sound nice, even if some egos are heart, even if somebody feels temporarily bad, it’s all right. I cannot give a false medicine, because I love. I will only give the real medicine.”
It depends on you now. What is the depth of your love towards your parents? If you don’t love them enough, just go ahead and allow their illusions to persist. If you love them enough, then bring the Truth to them. Take that as a litmus test. If you don’t love them enough you’ll allow their illusions to persist. And if you really love them then you will bring the Truth to them.
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