The ego is a strange thing. When it gets hurt, then it gets bigger.
Whatever you do, even to diminish the ego, only nourishes the ego.
Nobody has lost and nobody has gained. Both have just been fooled.
The ego is an entity which increases, by any effort of yours. Even the effort, to get rid of the ego, nourishes the ego.
Non-resistance means getting rid of that ‘I’ that accepts or rejects.
Non-resistance is to drop the right to accept. If you are still accepting, you are still so strong. You are the authority. You are the authority, who accepts.
When you throw garbage out of your house, do you also throw out your television and your wife? You only drop things selectively. You only drop that, which you think is not valuable. But when the dropping happens by itself, then anything can get dropped.
Read the complete article: Acharya Prashant: The difference between acceptance and non-resistance