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Do you know your real self-interest

Question: Pranaam Acharya Ji! A month back I asked a question on ‘numbness’ and how it affects my life. You gave me a good lesson on self-centeredness, and explained that if I am not able to do much for myself, then I should start working for others, so totally, that I forget myself.

There is one thing that I do not understand. ‘I’ the self-centered one, knows only self-centered action. If that is the starting point for helping others, then won’t that too turn out as subtle selfishness?

Acharya Prashant Ji: It’s okay.

It is not the ‘self-centeredness’ that is problematic.

Misplaced ‘self-centeredness’ is problematic.

Incomplete ‘self-centeredness’ is problematic.

When you say that you are being ‘self-centered’, what is it that you are centered on? That which you are as ‘the self’ do you know it? Know it, and then be ‘self-centered’.

It is okay. No problem.

In fact, there is actually, no option, but to be ‘self-centered’.

Whatever man does, he would always be ‘self-centered’, doesn’t matter whether you are the lowly looter, or the highest Saint – both are ‘self-centered’. It is just that one knows the self, and the other does not. One operates with a vague conception of the self. The other one, sits firmly, with total clarity of the self.  Nevertheless, ‘self-centeredness’ is, common amongst the two.

So, look at your tendencies. See what is it that you want. If by ‘self-centeredness’, you mean the common ‘selfishness’, try being selfish, and see whether it fulfills you. Why should we blindly, or moralistically, declare that ‘selfishness’ is bad? Let’s give ‘selfishness’ a chance – a fair chance.

If ‘selfishness’ can fulfill you, go ahead. If not ‘selfishness’, what is it then, that would work for you? Surely, not self-lessness.

If ‘selfishness’ doesn’t work for you, then go for deeper ‘selfishness’.

A deeper understanding of the ‘self’.

Work in your own self-interest, but know at least, what the interests of the ‘self’ are.


Excerpted from a ‘Shabd-Yog’ session. Edited for clarity.

Watch the session: Do you know your real self-interest? || Acharya Prashant (2019)

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