Existence is not obliged to follow your ideals

You have an ideal. You have a set idea of how things should be. You want existence to conform to your idea of things. You are so arrogant that you will not delight in what is, but would wail over what is not.

Who told you that existence is obliged to follow your random ideals?

Existence has its own intelligence, an intrinsic beautiful rhythm. The wish of existence is infinitely more real than your petty wish.