Real love is possible only with an immensity, an absolute totality, which is sometimes called as ‘God.’
You are attracted to that which is limited;
and you love that which is unlimited.
Your attraction to the unlimited is called love.
We all have that attraction to the unlimited.
Who is satisfied with small and ordinary and limited? Don’t we all have that urge to find something that is so absolute, so large, so relaxing, so immovable that we can quietly relax in the fold of ‘That’ like a baby? Sleep peacefully without a concern, without a worry.
That is the fundamental attraction: The mind wanting peace; the confused intellect wanting clarity.
These wants are love.