We do not mind at all when somebody tells us in the morning that you are handsome, you are looking wonderful. We think that this is what I am.
But you do not pay attention, you do not realize that, now you have given this person the license to say something to you in the evening. In the morning the fellow told you that you are looking wonderful, and in the evening if the same fellow comes and says that you are stupid, you have to take that in. You have made yourself dependent on him.